It Was Not Me
Hello Lovely People Why is it that we love taking credit for the things that go well, but we always search for someone to blame when things do not go well? It takes a certain level of emotional...
View ArticleWhat Do People Say About You?
Hello Lovely People Do you ever listen to what people say about you? Do you take other people’s opinions about you seriously? This is my personal guideline for what people say about me: If someone...
View ArticleWhat Do You Think You Are?
Hello Lovely People Here is a little exercise for you. Quickly write down three things you believe about yourself on a piece of paper. Put the paper in your pocket. Now ask a few people that you have...
View ArticleLet’s Try Something
Hello Lovely People Do you sometimes try to do things but then you do not succeed? That exactly is the problem. When you try, there is always a “but” in there. You start the action, knowing in your...
View ArticleWho Is To Blame?
Hello Lovely People Have you noticed what happens when you point a finger to the person who is to blame for your situation? Point that finger, and see how many fingers point back directly to you. Why...
View ArticleGaining From Adversity
Hello Lovely People Have you noticed how some people remain stuck in the same painful space? For example a bad relationship, unsuitable job, no self-belief, being bullied, even physical illness. And...
View ArticleDo You Regret Your Past?
Hello Lovely People Are there things in your past that you would rather forget? Do you regret things you did, or opportunities that you missed? Do you sometimes think how different your future will be...
View ArticleHold Your Own Memories
Hello Lovely People Who is in charge of your memories? I was clearing out some photographs over the weekend and had to decide whether to keep or delete photographs of people who are no longer part of...
View ArticlePlease Make Me Happy
Hello Lovely People I sometimes get requests from people to help them move to the UK, because they are so unhappy where there are, for various reasons. For example, a man does not like his job in...
View ArticleThank You and Thank You Again
Hello Lovely People Yes, I have gone quiet, and for a very good reason. Many things are happening in the background and keeping me very busy. I will be very active with a few massive surprises after 23...
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